Every now & then when dancing for someone I'm asked, "Do you ever get... Like really turned on by this?" Some just straight up TELL ME that I am. Others announce their assumption, "Yeah I bet you're real ready after doing this all day!" It's the same to me as the boyfriend who asks, "How many orgasms did you have?" They're usually out the door after that night when I have to answer with *blink* "Gee I can't even count that".
I'm also asked, "Doesn't it bug you having do do this for all those old guys out there?" No, it bugs me doing this for all those young cocky guys out there.
It happens. Not often, but lord all mighty did it happen recently : ) So you're not my type. In all technicalities just not my type. But you're cute. Okay handsome, but really cute. You look & dress like the stereotype of an egomaniac shallow stockbroker. You even gave me stock advice. What is this, Bright Lights Big City? Are you posing for an Armani add? And then you go & do this thing of being totally respectful & treating me well, while at the same time flattering me in a sexual yet non obscene way. You've been married for a decade yet have nothing but praise for you're wife & you're just as passionate about her as when you first met. Son of a bitch!
I have this thing I call the zone. For those of you I'll never go home with, I may still get in the zone with during dances, just like an athlete at their best. It's turned on in a different sense; sensual over sexual. I'm fully there connecting with what you feel & responding with a form or foreplay & touch. You can be old or fat or both. It doesn't matter. At that moment we're intimate & connected.
How do you get me there? Really just sit there & don't try; but more than that do so while enjoying the drawn out form of anticipation without expecting more. The moment you let up that it's a let down to have "just a dance" you can kiss me goodbye. Except I'll slap you for kissing me.
Here's a secret: When it comes to sex I run the show through & through, or at least set up the stage. So goes the exotic dance.
Summary: Allow your dancer to perform what is comfortable for her. Some girls are always disengaged - you can't change that. But if you can enjoy the moment, I personally can too.
Also if you're the Armani add... Holla!
